Connected by Disconnecting

Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. Galatians 6:2

So, I know you probably read this post title and thought, that's a pretty strange title for an online blog..... LOL. I know it does seem weird, but my posts are about practical and real moments we have in our lives and in no way, shape or form should reading these blog posts keep you from your family. I just want to share a little bit about the relationships we form by in person conversations vs online interactions.

My family lives in a neighborhood filled with some of the most amazing people I know. And yes, I realize everyone might feel that way about their own community, but ours truly is something special. The people here are genuine, kind, grounded, and beautifully unique. And I can say that confidently, because we actually see each other.

We’re not just names on a screen or profile photos behind a message bubble. We’re out in the neighborhood, walking dogs, pulling weeds, painting shutters, raking leaves, or grabbing the mail with bedhead and no shame. Every moment becomes an opportunity to say hello, to share a smile, to pause for a real conversation.

There’s something sacred about that kind of everyday presence. We’re intentional about showing up for one another, not just when it’s convenient, but simply because we’re here. We make eye contact. We listen. We offer a hand without being asked.

These tiny in-person moments add up. They create a kind of connection no online interaction can imitate. It’s community, formed one front-yard conversation at a time.

All of this stems from a very special phone call I received from my neighbor, Mr. Wayne. Now, he is likely not on this blog since it's aimed more towards ladies but maybe his sweet wife is. If so, everyone say hello to Mrs. Martha ♥ Mr. Wayne called asking if I could stop by his workshop because he had something for me to pick up. I drove over, and he unveiled two beautifully handcrafted crosses made from cracked pecan shells, each one carefully mounted on a piece of wood. He made one for me and one for my dad. ♥ This touched my heart so much ♥ He told me how many days it takes in total to create just one of these beautiful creations and the many steps to get there. I can’t help but feel that Mr. Wayne blessed my family with these crosses because of the bond our families have nurtured over the years. True connection doesn’t grow from screens or devices. It blossoms when we show up and share our time. These moments, these small acts of presence, are where the divine often quietly reveals itself.

I am sharing this in the hope of encouraging you to be intentional with the people around you. It’s the Christmas season, and some of the greatest gifts we can, give or receive, are the genuine relationships we nurture with those we share life with. This can include family, friends, neighbors, church family, school staff, or coworkers, really anyone who crosses our path and whose presence enriches our lives. Ultimately, meaningful relationships are the true treasures of life.

Father in the name of Jesus, thank You for the gift of people You place in our lives. Help us to be intentional in building genuine, loving relationships with those around us, family, friends, neighbors, and even strangers. Teach us to listen with open hearts, to offer kindness without expectation, and to walk alongside others in both joy and struggle. May our connections reflect Your love, grace, and patience, and may they be a source of encouragement, support, and growth for all. In Jesus' name we pray Amen.

I would love to read a beautiful moment you would like to share about being connected by disconnected. Please add them to the comments below 👇👇👇👇

Love you ♥God Bless♥