Good News: God Didn’t Cast You for the show "Alone"

One thing I keep learning in my walk with the Lord is this: God loves using people to grow us. Not always in big, dramatic, lightning-from-the-sky moments but in hour long lunch breaks, simple LOL emoji text messages, prayer texts, and the everyday rhythms of family life.

Some of the biggest faith-shaping moments in my life have come through friendships. Through conversations that started casually and ended in prayer. Through someone reminding me of truth when I couldn’t quite see it myself. Through laughter on good days and steady support on the hard ones.

Christian friendships are so much more than just having someone to sit next to at church. They’re the people who help carry the weight when faith feels heavy. The ones who lovingly nudge us back when we start to drift. The ones who remind us of God’s faithfulness when we forget, because sometimes we do forget. I can honestly say that God has blessed me with truly AMAZING women in my life. Each friend is so different, each one bringing her own sass and pizzazz, seasoning my life in the best way. Kinda like a really good spice rack.

Some bring wisdom and calm when I need grounding. Some bring laughter when I’m taking life a little too seriously. Some remind me to pray first, and others remind me that joy is holy too. God knew exactly who I needed, even before I did.

These women don’t just walk with me through life; they walk with me toward God. They challenge me, encourage me, pray for my family, and speak truth with love. And on the days I feel tired, uncertain, or stretched thin, they remind me that I don’t have to do this alone. My faith is richer because of them. Life is lighter because of them. And I’m constantly reminded that God’s goodness often shows up in the form of friendship.

Here’s the really good part those “Spice Girls” 😂 friendships well they’re meant for you too! Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and make Godly friends.

I know some of you may be carrying hurt from past friendships, and I am so sorry, that pain is real, and I get it. But here’s the hope: give it all to God. Trust Him to guide you into alignment with the friends He has for you, women who will pray with you, laugh with you, challenge you, and walk alongside you in faith.

Friendship with the right people is a gift, and God knows exactly who you need. So let go of the past, step forward in faith, and get ready for some life-seasoning, laughter-filled, Spirit-led friendships! You can do it my sister; here is some scriptural enragement for you:

🤍 Godly Friendship

Ecclesiastes 4:9–10

Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow

🌿 Show Yourself Friendly

Proverbs 18:24

A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.

🌸 Encouragement for friendships

Hebrews 10:24–25

And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works: Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together…”

🌼 Love in Friendship

Proverbs 27:17

Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.

If you’re feeling stretched thin, weary, or unsure, let this be your reminder: God placed people in your life on purpose. Reach out. Stay connected. Let someone walk with you. I want to pray for you.

Father in the mighty name of Jesus, Lord, I pray that You guide my sisters to friendships that honor You. Heal any past hurts or disappointments in their heart, and surround them with people who encourage, uplift, and walk closely with You. Help them to be a good friend in return, reflecting Your love and wisdom in every relationship. in Jesus' name Amen.

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